Saturday, February 24, 2007

About Pearl by Jacob Sarfaty

We gather today to mourn and to honor Pearl.

The affliction that took her life was a cruel one. Only now, within recent years do we hear of possible research approaches that may make inroads into this devastating illness. Not one of us is knowingly immune. And if by the Grace of God, one is, perhaps medical research, will determine why and use it to our mutual benefit.

Before this terminal illness, Pearl was a vibrant and engaged individual. Huge events in her life involving tragedies and joys were her portion. Others have spoken to these, but I will limit myself to those personal traits that remain close to me.

In normalcy, Pearl’s gentle demeanor and grace were always like a safe harbor from the strong winds around us. A sympathetic listener and a perceptive intelligence, she had an uncanny sense of the human relations around her. And let us not forget her quite smile and her ability to laugh at herself and with others.

Her ability to relate to children was a true gift. This was expressed in her many years as a popular and beloved teacher. When our daughters were little, it was a wonder how she was able to engage them in conversation and play. And then as they passed into adulthood, her continuing interest in their progress, ups and downs.

And at times, when principle and ethical behavior were involved, she would show another aspect of her character, soft as silk and strong as steel. Her sense of loyalty
to family and friends were truly admirable. She never forgot her roots.

Each of us here today, paying our respects to Pearl and her family, are on life’s journey. At some point in time, each of us will probably ask oneself are we leaving this world a better place. When Pearl was her normal self , the answer is a resounding Yes.
This legacy is hers and also ours.